My biggest insecurity had always been what
pregnancy would do to my body and my self-
image. I had been bullied by family members that if
I gained weight other than baby weight during
pregnancy, then I’d just be using pregnancy as an
excuse to get fat. I was constantly given
“instructions” on how to avoid unnecessary weight
gain, stretch marks, how to lose weight fast after a
baby, I even had someone say to me “well that
baby surely doesn’t weigh 40lbs”... after I delivered
my second child, my body didn’t exactly “bounce
back.”